Saturday, April 30, 2011

Share Experiences

I am a member of a group that meets every Sunday afternoon on the Upper West Side. My membership in this group has given me great joy and inspiration. I usually attend alone. But this week, I invited my husband to accompany me. I am so glad that he not only accepted my invitation, but also became an enthusiastic participant. I was so moved when I reflected on how wonderful it is to have a husband who wants to share experiences with me. And I promptly told him afterwards just how much it meant to me.

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Be Spicy

It was a quiet Sunday evening. I was sending e mails and my husband was reading a book. I took a break from writing to check him out. He caught me checking him out. I said, "Sorry. I didn't mean to stare. But those are some tight shorts, you're wearing. They accentuate every...bulge!" He smiled. So I immediately gave him a surprise blow job. There is no bad time for surprise oral sex. It is always the right time, I believe. In a split second we turned from boring married couple to spicy hot lovers. It was fabulous.

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Be Proud of Your Spouse

Yesterday evening, my husband and I attended an awards dinner sponsored by MassMutual Financial Group, my company. I was so proud of him and introduced him to colleagues and superiors alike, every chance I got. I not only told people his name and that he is my husband, but I made them feel like it was a privilege to meet him. I am proud that he is excellent at what he does and know that anyone would be lucky to know him. I also loved the way he looked. He looked like a million bucks last night. I think it is important to be proud of your spouse and make it clear to everyone to whom you introduce him that he is the best thing since the invention of the wheel!

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Be Super Helpful

Tonight I performed at a jazz club in Chelsea at about 11 p.m. At that time of night the subway service in New York gets sketchy. I asked Rueben if he would pick me up. He did pick me up, and he didn't mind at all, even though by the time I asked him to do so, I was taking him out of his way. He was super helpful and I appreciate it very much. He is the best husband ever.

Be Full of Surprises!

I was watching "Live With Regis and Kelly" yesterday morning. One of the guests was Barbara Eden, the actress most famous for playing Jeannie on "I Dream of Jeannie." Just as her segment ended, my husband walked into the room with a mischievous smile. I said "Barbara Eden just wrote a book. It is called 'Jeannie Out of the Bottle.'" He said, "I would like to get the Jeannie out of your bottle," and jumped on me. Needless to say I immediately turned off the t.v. Afterwards, I told him what a pleasant surprise it was. I love when he keeps me on my toes.